Have a good night.” Then he closed the door in my face.
When I told him I was, according to the most recent studies, almost chemically unable to do so, and that I wouldn’t do it to him if I could, he said, “All right, well, I have to go. He wanted me to seroconvert him - infect him with HIV. “Yes, but because I’m on medication and undetectable, my chance of transmitting HIV is basically zero.” In the door, he asked me an unexpected question: “I bet you’re not on meds, right?” Period.Īfter dinner, we headed back to his place. Someone who assumes what your kinks are or does kinky things with you that weren’t communicated beforehand is not safe. If you’re into kink, there are more hookup rules: Never be incapacitated (tied up) by someone you don’t know, and never play with someone you haven’t discussed and negotiated your/his kinks with and talked about your limits and safeword(s) beforehand. Not everyone who’s into gut-punching is a dangerous hookup, but this guy was. I bet I can shove my whole hand inside you.” “Come on, please? I’ll go at your pace, but I really want you to take it. I was on my back with his dick in my mouth and felt a blow to my stomach. I once met a guy in Los Angeles who didn’t communicate that he was into gut-punching - a popular kink in its own right but not something I get into. Everyone has heard the hookup horror story where he wants to do things that aren’t on your agenda.
